When You Abandoned Our Son I lost the Right to Parent Autonomously

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I don’t feel anger towards you. Not anymore that is. Time has healed my pain, though it has not been as merciful to our child. I was naive for certain when we decided to bring a child into the world. Nonetheless, the obstacles I experienced parenting him taught me life’s hardest lessons. While I wish I had been able to learn these lessons in a gentler way, ultimately learning…

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I am a queer, woman of color, scholar-activist. writing about parenting, loving, forgiving and struggle

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Katie Acosta

Katie Acosta

I am a queer, woman of color, scholar-activist. writing about parenting, loving, forgiving and struggle

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